So ive got a few issues (again^^), instead of just spamming the forum i decided to just make one post, addressing them all:
1. I want to use the amazing "Perkus Maximus" by T3ndo, wich has a Skyproc patcher to handle alot of stuff. using it with MO2 however doesnt seem to work, since the patcher doesnt seem to know where to put its files, and it just dumps them all into the "overwrite" thing.
to solve this i created a empty mod and just moved them all there, but thats just random honestly and didnt change anything.
2. i used the tutorial vid by the guy with the russian accent (lol), to install SKSE (was a skyrim SE video, i just assumed its the same cause steam SKSE didnt work anymore). it kind of works and kind of doesnt. my SKSE folder always gets deleted (same with steam SKSE), but for some mods i need access to it ("crash fixes" by meh321 for example), while mods requiring SKSE seem to work.
3. Everytime i launch LOOT, it seems to automaticly disable some patches (the people of skyrim - alternate start patch for example), im not sure if i should activate them manually again in the plug in section or just leave them as they are.
so if anyone knows anything, id be thankful for some tips or/and solutions :)
ah and btw, MO2 guys, the manager is amazing to handle and has pretty damn good features, so yeah, keep up the good work!